Discipline Vs. Judgment

By Greg on September 30, 2013 • ( 4 )

By Neil Anderson

September 30

Galatians 6:1

Brethren, even if a man is caught in any trespass, you who are spiritual, restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness

Are there any occasions when Christians should confront each other on matters of behavior? Yes. We are required by God to confront and restore those who have clearly violated the boundaries of Scripture (Matthew 18:15, 16). But let me alert you to an important distinction in this area: Discipline is an issue of confronting observed behavior–that which you have personally witnessed (Galatians 6:1); judgment is an issue of character. We are instructed to confront others concerning sins we have observed, but we are not allowed to judge their character (Matthew 7:1; Romans 14:13). Disciplining is our responsibility; judging character is God’s responsibility.

For example, imagine that you just caught your child telling a lie. “You’re a liar,” you say to him. That’s judgment, an attack on his character. But if you say, “Son, you just told a lie,” that’s discipline. You’re holding him accountable based on an observed behavior.

Or let’s say that a Christian friend admits to you that he cheated on his income tax return. If you confront him as a thief, you are judging his character and that’s not your responsibility. You can only confront him on the basis of what you see: “By cheating on your taxes, you are stealing from the government and that’s wrong.”

Much of what we call discipline is nothing less than character assassination. We say to our disobedient child: “You’re a bad boy.” We say to a failing Christian brother or sister: “You’re not a good Christian.” Such statements don’t correct or edify; they tear down character and convey disapproval for the person as well as his problem. Your child is not a liar; he’s a child of God who has told a lie. Your Christian friend is not a thief; he’s a child of God who has taken something which doesn’t belong to him. We must hold people accountable for their behavior, but we are never allowed to denigrate their character.

Prayer: Forgive me, Father, for judging others. Enable me to discipline in love those I care about and for whom I am responsible.

Christians and Judging Others (theprogressivefaith.wordpress.com)
Does the Bible forbid Christians from “judging”? (siftingreality.com)
Who’s Responsible for Conviction? (inspirationalchristiansfortoday.com)
Don’t Judge Me! (theologicalthinker.wordpress.com)

Greg

Greg is a strong believer in Jesus Christ and in the need for revival in today’s Church. He likes reading, writing, music, and spending time with his family and his dog Roxie. By day he is a self-employed non-emergency medical transport driver, and is the Editor-in-Chief for the National War Council, as well as being a political analyst, author, blogger, and an accomplished DIYer. His articles are first published on Inspirational Christian Blogs, and I Am Not Ashamed of the Gospel of Christ!, and from there the articles are published on other well-known conservative websites.

The author feels convinced that the Church is in extreme danger of being forsaken by God for being unbiblical and seeks to warn all those with “ears to hear.” He believes we are in the last days of the end times, and that God is building His Remnant Church even now.

Greg is the author of: Spiritual Darkness is Destroying America and the Church and
The Jehovah’s Witnesses: Dedicated Servants or Dangerous Heretics?

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Tags: Behavior, Character, Character assassination, Christianity, Discipline, Faith, God, Jesus, Judgment

catlover60

September 30, 2013 • 8:04 am

I sadly know a situation very much like this. The person was treated very much like what is written here. The treatment made this person feel unwelcome, unloved and alone. The person left the church. I use to think that was how it was suppose to be but after seeing a person treated this way with my own eyes, I saw judgement and I saw no love. This person’s character was torn down and the person felt nothing BUT disapproval. I can’t see that this is right. You disapprove of a sin….not the person. You also do NOT make them feel like an outcast. I have still not decided if I am ever going to attend that church again though I have friends there.

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